We so often remain victims as adults because we subconsciously think our parents aren’t strong enough to carry the weight of their actions — they are. By doing so, they regain their dignity and self-respect. By continuing to play the “victim,” we continue to...
It was in his systemic therapy work that Bert discovered that the family system, just like any other system, has its own natural order and when that order is disrupted; the effects are felt by subsequent generations as the system tries to right itself. There appear to...
Ancestral family systems, social networks, businesses, cultural and spiritual systems – each one of these systems holds you like a huge “net” – holding you and everything together to ensure the system’s strength and survival. These subconscious bonds and loyalties...
