When I discovered Constellation Healing, it immediately resonated with me and I was amazed by how much I understood, how much I already knew – much more than I’d ever realized.
It led me to realize I’d been accessing information that was not mine and discovered psychic and intuitive gifts.
I then went on to learn about ancestral family systems, your entire family lineage, and how each one of these systems holds you like a huge “net.” It holds you, your family, your ancestors, and everything together to ensure the family system’s strength and survival.
What I’ve found is these subconscious bonds and loyalties exist in every aspect of your life.
Constellation Healing reveals these entanglements and frees you from their control. It looks like several people in a room together, led by a facilitator – me! – and the group focuses on one “working” client per session.
We reiterate their goals for their session – usually money / career, romance, health, or relationships. Next, they chose an attendee “representative,” who then begins to move in some way expressing the subconscious and hidden dynamics of the working client’s family system. Whatever comes up, we follow until the emotion, resentment, fear, past grievances, or grief is released fully for the entire family system.
I conclude the Constellation Healing with an intuitive “healing statement” to ground and integrate the healing for their entire family system and that of everyone in the room. Through this, long-held beliefs are shattered and the working client experiences a profound breakthrough in their understanding of themselves, their family, and their lineage.
Depending on whether the working client’s goals, they have profound insight about their specific situation and larger lesson to take away for everyone.
Constellation Healings have healed long-time relationship conflicts, self-worth and money issues, romance dynamics, and chronic health ailments – and often, deeply-held beliefs you didn’t know you or your family had.
Experience a Constellation Healing Session
If you would like to check out a Constellation Healing session, we recommend attending Gary’s next online or in-person event. Attend the event as a participant and observer. If you decide Constellation Healing is for you, book Gary for a working session. To see Gary’s current list of events, click the button below.
More About Constellation Healing
All Constellations provide a unique window into these secret alliances and entangled energies in your life which stop your CHI and your life force, from moving forward. Subconsciously, you may feel there is an unspoken debt that needs to be paid before you can find fulfillment. By revealing these entanglements, you have the ability to create healthy boundaries between those who came before you and yourself today.
Each generation has a chance to start anew, and any perceived “price” left to be paid is not yours to pay. Their karma is theirs, not yours. Family loyalties are strong, and we often take on burdens that are not yours to carry. Without realizing it, you can do so in order to feel you belong to the family system. Ironically, you belong anyway, without doing a thing.
But this often creates an emotional entanglement of GUILT. If you begin to do well, you may feel guilty for not suffering as they did.
SHAME is another family dynamic that can keep you feeling stuck and unfulfilled. Even though you may outwardly say ” I don’t need anyone’s approval”, inside you may often feel hurt and excluded within your own family system. Even FEAR is used to stop us in our tracks if we dare to venture too far from the family pattern. But while these may be the negative ties that bind us, there is a way to transform these entanglements into actual support. Subtle family dynamics affect your prosperity on many levels, and the Constellation process allows you to see how you got to where you are.
The result is you can leave whatever is not serving you in the past and move forward into a prosperous and unencumbered future.
Quantum Activation Constellations—$195
Targeted, single-subject constellation session. Please RSVP in ADVANCE by paying online or with a check to secure your working client spot.
Family, Ancestral, & Systemic Working Constellations—$295
A longer, more systemically connected constellation that may target two to three areas of your family system. Please RSVP in ADVANCE by paying online or with a check to secure your working client spot.
Consciousness knows no time or space. Therefore Constellations can be done from a distance. We set your goals and complete an historical questionnaire which we discuss before we work. Then you receive a detailed report with a telephone or Zoom Consultation after. Please RSVP in ADVANCE by paying online or with a check to secure your working client spot.
Organizational Constellations work in the same way as personal Constellations. However, the focus is on the application of the Constellation principles to cause breakthroughs within your organization. These breakthroughs alter workplace patterns and communication, allowing for more business growth. Organizational Constellations shift dynamics and increase employee retention, engagement, and loyalty for your business. Please RSVP in ADVANCE by paying online or with a check to secure your working client spot.
What is a Constellation?
Well, it’s a way of approaching any issue with an idea that produces simply profound results.
Subconscious bonds and deep loyalties exist in every aspect of our lives. Constellations tap into this Conscious Field of Totality and reveal what’s unseen that maybe having a negative effect in our lives. Our unconscious becomes conscious, allowing us the freedom to make a healthy, FUNctional, proactive choice that allows us to make a change. We can rewrite the script of our lives in a new, positive and empowering way.
Constellation work uses this systemic field to reveal unresolved traumas in the lives of previous members, whose fates can persist and become entangled in subsequent and current generations.
A constellation experience is a deeply healing process that allows your subconscious to reveal what’s hidden from your awareness. Once you move something from the unconscious to the conscious, you are empowered to make better choices and resolve problems quicker and with ease. In essence, you no longer sabotage yourself from an unconscious state. You operate from conscious decision making.
The interconnected world and how this impacts Constellation healing
We all live and breathe in a field of invisibly connected ‘systems’ – ancestral family systems, social/work systems, cultural systems, and spiritual systems. Each one of those systems is like a huge “net”, holding everyone and everything together to ensure the system’s strength and survival. If there has been trauma in a system, it’s like damage to the net; the system itself is weakened and those close to the damage are especially vulnerable to harm and/or dysfunction.
Approaching a problem or an issue with a Constellation is rather like discovering and mending the damage that has occurred in the ‘nets’ that contain and profoundly influence it. The problem or issue is held in an ancestral family net, social and/or work nets, cultural nets, and/or spiritual nets – and that is where a Constellation can mend it, where it’s healed.
How does it work?
During a Constellation experience, you are joining approximately 15 other attendees committed to breakthroughs in their lives. Each workshop encompasses activities that are focused on resolving any blind spots that may be getting in your way.
Typically, Gary facilitates 3-4 personal Constellation experiences, when you are in this role you are referred as the working client. These personal Constellations are pre-scheduled through our office. First-timers generally attend to understand the Constellation experience and see the possibilities for themselves. These pre-selected clients have a specific goal in mind. Gary facilitates a Constellation process that allows for hidden dynamics that you are unconsciously carrying, to be seen, released, and ultimately allows for profound transformation in your life to occur.
Systemic Ancestral, Family, and Organizational Constellations reveal and release hidden dynamics with which we are entanglement. These energetic, unconscious obstacles affect our health, our career, and our interpersonal relationships. Through the use of Representatives to access hidden dynamics, we gain objectivity and transformation. Witnessing the subtle dimensions that each problem contains actually transforms the energy, allowing for resolution.
Acknowledging these conditions can allow a resolution to arise that honors everyone and restores the flow of love and acceptance. This enables healing within the system.
How long is a Constellation workshop?
Generally, a Constellation workshops lasts 2-4 hours. The individual sessions typically last 15-45+minutes depending on if it is a Quantum Activation, single-subject (shorter) or Systemic Family System constellation (longer). Sometimes it’s longer or shorter, regardless of the process time, the price remains the same. We also take group breaks between each session. For the most benefit, we ask that you stay for the entirety of the workshop. However if your schedule has a conflict, please let us know prior to the start of the workshop so we can accommodate your needs.
What is the Constellation goal?
If we can dream it, then it can come to be. The Knowing Field that expresses potentiality in any Constellation taps into your subconscious, allowing forward movement in the direction that you seek for healing, growth & resolution.
How can Constellations help me?
Simply put — It shifts any blocks that may be stopping your success and happiness. We’ve discovered from decades of research, that when you have the desire and goal to change your life, the constellation experience supports your goals and life desires at the deepest levels and at lightning speed. Many of those who attend, experience miraculous shifts.
What happens at the Constellation event?
Using Bert Hellinger’s effective “living constellation” method, participants reconstruct their family or organizational system to identify and solve fundamental issues. All participants get to choose their level of participation. Some may choose to observe. Others may serve as a “Rep” and represent an issue, person, or problem for the working participant/ client. It’s a Win-Win for all attending.
Participants can choose among these levels of involvement:
- Observing from the seating circle
- Representing a person in someone else’s family
- Placing their family in the circle using representatives
Will I experience any breakthroughs at a Constellation event?
We’ve found that breakthroughs have no bounds. Our clients have experienced profound transformation in all areas of their life such has, money, health, romance, forgiveness, family bonding, sibling issues, and loss. Your new insights will solve problems in ways you never knew existed. Because we focus on making the unconscious conscious, the Constellation experience releases any pain you have carried from your past that’s been previously stopping you (and for some of you, that means decades), into creating the outcomes you desire for a fulfilling and happy life.
What if I don’t know my family history?
No problem. We use a basic questionnaire that asks what you do know, which guides Gary as a Constellation facilitator. Our many clients simply share what they remember or stories they were told. During the Constellation experience, the subconscious you carry is all knowing, and will guide Gary to uncover what’s hidden, deeply supporting your breakthroughs.
What issues and formats are used during a Constellation?
- Re-Incarnation / Past Life
An accelerated method to get to the problem you’ve been living with your whole life.
- Inner Victim, Inner Perpetrator
Resolve client’s conflict between inner selves.
- Releasing the Dead
How to release the dead and convert from a haunting problem into blessing and support for client and family.
- Past, Present, and Future
Ways to identify which problem area to be worked on.
- Family Tree
Find your proper place in the system and identify unborn/missing members.
- Dyad & Triad
Used for a variety of subjects (obesity, addiction, self-esteem…).
- Unifying Body, Mind & Soul
Integrate multiple parts of self into a whole.
Prosperity workshop for money, career, success.
Supporting the ill and their family, plus caretaker challenges.
Transforming invisible dynamics present in business and career.
- Romantic Entanglements
How to resolve and heal past romantic and sexual histories
What subjects can be explored during a Constellation
Health, money, relationships, love, interpersonal conflicts, work, business, organizational, family issues, divorce, financial, trauma, incest, child abuse, war, violence, childhood, parents, grief, loss, anger, sexuality, intimacy fears, phobias, and historical events.
What is a distance Constellation?
The Distance Constellation is similar to the Constellation experience. However, the biggest difference is that the Distance Constellation does not require your physical presence. Instead, Gary uses an attendee proxy to Represent you, while still attaining your desired goals. It is not uncommon for people to remark that they receive the same results whether they are present at the actual workshop, or they experience the transformation through a Distance Constellation.
What is an organizational Constellation?
Organizational Constellations work in the same way as personal Constellations. However, the focus is on the application of the Constellation principles to cause breakthroughs within your organization. These breakthroughs alter workplace patterns and communication, allowing for more business growth. Organizational Constellations shift dynamics and increase employee retention, engagement and loyalty for your business.
How do I sign up as a working client?
Becoming the working client for your Constellation is easy. To book your appointment, simply call us at (310) 748-2052 or email us at Gary@ConstellationHealingInstitute.com.
Gary will follow up with a quick 10-minute phone call, and provide with a questionnaire on your family history as well your desired outcomes for the Constellation experience. Then you’ll find a mutual time that best fits your schedule. You will also be sending your forms back to Gary 72 hours prior to your workshop.
On the day of your Constellation experience, Gary will have a brief conversation to clarify your goals.
The Roles in a Constellation Workshop
This is any person who has the intention to improve their life on any level. Their positive desire for the BEST possible outcome is key. Their unconscious impulses will become conscious. They will see what they carry, who they carry it for, and whether or not it’s even theirs. Deep changes will energetically take root in their life on whatever level they need for improvement.
A Rep is any person who you pick to work on your behalf. They support your excursion into the deeper aspects of ANY invisible dynamics that are unconsciously stopping your progress on any level or in any part of your life.
Can a Constellation Help me?
Problems and issues are the norm, especially in our complicated, techno society. We all try and deal with them in our own ways. Sometimes we use therapy, sometimes we just talk to friends. However, what if the problems keep reappearing in our lives and we can’t see to get rid of them?
Constellations provide a different way of looking at our lives that helps. Constellations say we are not just “lone wolves” struggling to survive by ourselves. Instead, we are part of a vast, interconnected, ancestral community that extends far back into the past. Even though most of our ancestors are not alive, we carry their DNA inside of us and that can affect our ability to solve problems, have healthy relationships, be successful at work and all of the things that really matter most in life.
Since you are a survivor in your family system (congratulations!) we know that your family has given you a lot of strength because only the really strong people’s genes make it into the next generation. But what about the problems your family may have faced? Problems like abuse, alcoholism, war, illness, emotional problems, and more. How do you deal with that by yourself? Constellation Healing Experience gives you a way to experience the effect of your past family history on you right now, in the present.
Listen as Debbi Dachinger shares her success with Gary’s Constellation Healing Experience
Constellations provide a unique window into these secret alliances and entangled energies in your life which stop your life force, from moving forward. Subconsciously, you may feel there is an unspoken debt that needs to be paid before you can find fulfillment.
By revealing these entanglements, you have the ability to create healthy boundaries between those who came before you and yourself today. Each generation has a chance to start anew, and any perceived “price” left to be paid is not yours to pay. Their karma is theirs, not yours. Family loyalties are strong, and we often take on burdens that are not yours to carry. Without realizing it, you can do so in order to feel you belong to the family system. Ironically, you belong anyway, without doing a thing. But this often creates an emotional entanglement of guilt.
If you begin to do well, you may feel guilty for not suffering as they did. Shame is another family dynamic that can keep you feeling stuck and unfulfilled. Even though you may outwardly say, “I don’t need anyone’s approval,” inside you may often feel hurt and excluded within your own family system. Even fear can be used to stop us in our tracks if we dare to venture too far from the family pattern.
But while these may be the negative ties that bind us, there is a way to transform these entanglements into actual support. Subtle family dynamics affect your prosperity on many levels, and the Constellation process allows you to see how you got to where you are. The result is you can leave whatever is not serving you in the past, and move forward into a freer, more prosperous, and unencumbered future.